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Hey Mrs. Solomon on Style's avatar

THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL. Thank you. Grateful to have the gift of you! And I will add, as a LEo/extrovert, I am missing the birthday part gene. I opted to eat Italian subs on the couch with Jim while binging Presumed Innocent, no matter how much he attempted to persuade me otherwise.

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Well that sounds like the perfect birthday celebration to me, my friend! And thank YOU, most generous of souls, for the gift of your friendship... xx

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Dina Alvarez's avatar

A most lovely, heartfelt and thoughtful essay Dina. Thank you for opening yourself up here and sharing these bits and pieces ;)

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Thank you for this beautiful comment- I'm so glad you enjoyed it! xo

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Wallis Jewelry Connoisseur's avatar

My Mother’s Birthday is 9/28. She left on 5/20/19. I get very emotional all September. I Hope you and your Dad had a Blessed Birthday!

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

I understand- it weighs so heavy on our hearts... And thank you- sending you much September love...xo

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Wallis Jewelry Connoisseur's avatar

Thank you so much! I listened to a sermon by Dr Barnhouse on YouTube. It’s called Divine Healing. It has brought me some solace🙏.

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

p.s. welcome back! Missed your words here! XO

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

XOXO

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

Oh Dina, this is profoundly beautiful. Sending you love from across the pond this month, as you so perfectly put it, “holding both the joys and the sorrows” in your heart. You weave both through extraordinarily in this essay, and your words are a gift and bring comfort and solidarity in the way that the most powerful and true sharing of stories does. Thank you. 🙏 ❤️

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Oh my goodness, Jenni, thank you for this most kind and generous comment! It makes my heart so happy to hear that something I have written can connect and bring comfort in that way- it's the highest compliment and such an honor... xo

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

Truly, your words are a balm and resonate so much. Sending love, and agree that connection is everything!!! XOXO

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K. Morgan's avatar

Oh, bittersweet September, indeed, Dina. As you embark on another trek around the sun, I'll wish for you more of what fills your heart,soothes your soul, and nourishes your spirit. Grateful for you and your ability to put into words what many feel -including me - about birthdays and feting ourselves. Your voice is so clear in this piece!

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Thank you for this, Kim- what a special feeling it is to know that your words are resonating- it's truly the reason I push myself to open up, to allow myself to be vulnerable, and to share. I appreciate you...x

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Tonya Phillips's avatar

Happy Birthday!!

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Thank you, Tonya! xo

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Christine Morrison's avatar

Happiest of birthdays xx

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Thank you so much, Christine! xx

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Tamara's avatar

Happy Birthday on your own terms which, after all, is the best way to celebrate it :)

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

The best way... Thank you so much, Tamara! xo

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Nipa's avatar

I think I'm quite the opposite when it comes my birthdays. I spend most of the year taking care of people so it's the one day of the year I want to be pampered. 😊 But I get it, sometimes fate steps in and brings heartache on special days. It sounds like you know exactly how to celebrate your birthday (or not). I hope it turns out to be just the way you want it. Xo Nipa

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

I totally get that, Nipa! And a well deserved day of pampering it is! Thank you so much for this and for the special wishes...xo

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Skylar Liberty Rose's avatar

You are such a gift to the world, Dina. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. A month of many big feelings for you. Sending love your way, and I hope you’re able to find peace and joy amongst the tender memories ❤️

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Wow, so kind, Skylar- and you know I feel the same way about you and your generous sharing of your heart. Thank you so much for the love and wishes...xo

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