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K. Morgan's avatar

Beautiful reflection and tribute for Mother's Day. It remains a tough day for me (and it's coming up on 14 years). That being said, I had to smile broadly when I saw the photo of you wearing the rosette gifted to you by your mom. Small remembrances become so embedded in the fabric of our daily lives. We carry both tangible and intangible with us forever.

Now, lady, you make denim look so fabulous, I must find a suitable and fun one for myself. I haven't owned one in decades.

XOXO have a fabulous weekend.

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

I think this will always and forever be a tough one- sending love to you!

I try to wear something she made or something that was hers every day- it makes me feel close to her. And thank you so much for the kind words- please let me know if you find one!

Have a fab weekend! xo

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

This is so beautiful. So happy to have discovered your Substack here this evening!

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Welcome! So happy you are here and glad you enjoyed! Xo

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

Thank you so much, Dina! I was bug-eyed and it was late here last night, but I wanted to say that I so relate. It was mother's day here in the UK back in March, and my first without mine. Your words about how you feel about those opt-outs just say it all: "I never want to opt-out of thinking about the woman whose unconditional love shaped me and informed so much of how I move through life." (Oh, and also obsessed with JR Miracle Balms!)

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Alyson's avatar

Really beautiful photo of you and your mum, and I love your reflection on Mother’s Day. ❤️

I’m looking forward to wearing my denim midi skirt when it warms up in the UK. Thanks for the inspiration. Your styling is gorgeous!

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

So kind, Alyson- thank you so much! I’m so happy you enjoyed…

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Skylar Liberty Rose's avatar

The joy on your mom's face in the photo of you both is so evident. What a lovely capture! Sending you hugs as you remember and honor your relationship with her. I'm sure there's a lot of big feelings. Loved the denim skirt pics - I actually thought it was some kind of cool photo effect and not dust 😂 I appreciate the make up info as I really need to move away from powder but there's so many options and I often feel overwhelmed by it all!

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Thank you, Skylar! It’s truly one of my favorite photos, and this really represents how she moved through life- always able to extract the joy even in hardship. And lol re: the dust! As for the makeup, you have such a lovely canvas! Let me know if you try…x

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Hey Mrs. Solomon on Style's avatar

What wonderful treasures. And moved to see you in that belt! I had been thinking about Mother’s Day in terms of friends suffering in infertility— and you brought such a different perspective, to think about forever celebrating our mothers — and mothers’ mothers — even when celebrating means the sometimes hurt in the beauty of remembering. I will do it all and also send love to those yearning to be mothers. I have been there.

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

The belt is special to me- I love wearing pieces that have meaning, and I think of you whenever I put it on! And yes, Mother’s Day brings so many feelings- focusing on gratitude helps to soothe. And I have much compassion for those who yearn- sending love right along side you…xx

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Dina Alvarez's avatar

Love all the different versions of denim skirts! Great piece and Mother’s Day❤️

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

So happy to hear! So easy to wear and style. And thank you always...x

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Ruth Hughs's avatar

So inspiring! I will honor my mother, eat a healthy salad, and put in an extra effort to look and feel cute. Thanks for the motivation!

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Ha! Sounds like it's going to be a good day! Thank you xx

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

A reader just brought to my attention that the link for the Etsy belt was wrong- I updated but here for those who received e-mail (which doesn't update) here it is: https://rstyle.me/+XjB_fiPpyEVBcJWlBkzFH

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