Such a great post Dina and what a way to round out Women's History Month! And your MIL's book - she truly was a powerhouse. I'm so grateful that midlife has ushered in new opportunities that I could never have imagined. Mired in what society leads us to believe we should be doing by a certain age, it's been wonderful to explore and feel drawn to new possibilities. I'll definitely agree, we've come a long way, baby!
Thank you! And I could not agree more- I never imagined when I was younger that the world would open up the way it has- the possibilities, the opportunities, and the beautiful new connections and deep friendships. It's all been so life-affirming, and I hope that younger women will see that through Midlife Private Parts! Better with age...! And my MIL was honestly one of the most brilliant people I have ever known- she made some history herself!
During my parent’s divorce in the 70s, my mother experienced the same credit card issue — my father, from whom she sought independence, had to sign for a Mastercard. It was the foundation for her teaching me the value of financial stability and independence in my own life; this plays a role in a chapter in my forthcoming fashion essay collection as it shaped me immensely. You can imagine my reaction when an otherwise lovely beau balked about how much I’d spent on a pair of Trina Turk pants — expensive khakis (flat front, required dry cleaning) that were an investment in myself having risen in the ranks of my ad agency. It may not be part of the 1 Corinthians, but even at that young age I knew love did not mean telling someone what they could wear.
It's so interesting how much we are shaped around these issues- from a very early age, my mom emphasized that I should always be independent and able to take care of myself without relying on a man. It's pretty incredible that it took until 1974 for women to have some semblance of economic freedom in this country. And omg I can just imagine your reaction! Can't wait to read that chapter (and the whole damn book for that matter!)!
pre-ordered! 👏
Amazing- thank you so much! 🙏
Thanks for reminding us. It's a difficult time to remember that we have come a long way.
For sure it is...
Thank you, Dina. What an informative post and thank you for reminding me of some history I have forgotten.
So glad, Wendy! Thanks so much for reading! xx
Such a great post Dina and what a way to round out Women's History Month! And your MIL's book - she truly was a powerhouse. I'm so grateful that midlife has ushered in new opportunities that I could never have imagined. Mired in what society leads us to believe we should be doing by a certain age, it's been wonderful to explore and feel drawn to new possibilities. I'll definitely agree, we've come a long way, baby!
Thank you! And I could not agree more- I never imagined when I was younger that the world would open up the way it has- the possibilities, the opportunities, and the beautiful new connections and deep friendships. It's all been so life-affirming, and I hope that younger women will see that through Midlife Private Parts! Better with age...! And my MIL was honestly one of the most brilliant people I have ever known- she made some history herself!
During my parent’s divorce in the 70s, my mother experienced the same credit card issue — my father, from whom she sought independence, had to sign for a Mastercard. It was the foundation for her teaching me the value of financial stability and independence in my own life; this plays a role in a chapter in my forthcoming fashion essay collection as it shaped me immensely. You can imagine my reaction when an otherwise lovely beau balked about how much I’d spent on a pair of Trina Turk pants — expensive khakis (flat front, required dry cleaning) that were an investment in myself having risen in the ranks of my ad agency. It may not be part of the 1 Corinthians, but even at that young age I knew love did not mean telling someone what they could wear.
It's so interesting how much we are shaped around these issues- from a very early age, my mom emphasized that I should always be independent and able to take care of myself without relying on a man. It's pretty incredible that it took until 1974 for women to have some semblance of economic freedom in this country. And omg I can just imagine your reaction! Can't wait to read that chapter (and the whole damn book for that matter!)!
SO HONORED to be part of this. Necessary, poignant, and often hilarious. Kinda like midlife.
Kinda like midlife... Love it, and love you xx