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Dina Alvarez's avatar

You are very much a “real” writer and I love being here for your thoughtful essays and honest voice. Here’s to enjoying the ride and writing our hearts out -xx

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Means the world to me- thank you! And a big yes...!

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Jillian's avatar

This was a great read Dina! Thank you for sharing that fear sometimes can sneak in even when we thought we uninvited it to the party. “Real writer” or not, I thoroughly enjoy what you put to (the theoretical) paper.

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Thank you for the kind words, Jillian! Yes that fear can be sneaky! So glad you enjoyed...

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Fran Machurick's avatar

I enjoy your writing Dina. I promise not to correct your grammar, typos, etc., if you continue to write and brighten my day with your words.

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Ha! It's a deal! Thanks so much, Fran! xx

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Hey Mrs. Solomon on Style's avatar

I love this. I religiously read @graceatwood and she talks about insecurity around her writing, which blows my mind because she’s such a success and a wonderful writer. As are you. Let’s keep holding hands and hitting send together! 😘

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Thank you so much, my friend- means the world to me, and deal!

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

Oh Dina, this is one of my favourite essays of yours - and I love each one! - and one of my favourites of late here, FULL STOP! Real, true, and captures exactly what we’re all feeling so much of the time, and you are SO right about just doing the thing - and in in the form of a beautiful essay here. And your beloved kitty 💗 - we have a boy the same age and could be her English twin!! 🐈‍⬛ Know just how hard these periods are - sending 🙏🤗. (Also, my texts and WhatsApps are always full of typos and inappropriate autocorrect’s 😂 and I drive my family mad dictating everything because I can’t find my glasses to see my screen.🤷‍♀️) And SO exciting to hear about your project’s progress - just wonderful!! 👏💃🏻XXXX

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Patina with Dina Aronson's avatar

Ha Jenni- SAME on the glasses!! Thank you as always for your kindness- means so much to me that you enjoy and that these pieces speak to you! I feel like sometimes we all get stuck in our heads, and need to remind ourselves to keep going! Kitty is still not too happy, but hopefully she'll have a better week...xxo

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Jen Baden Howard's avatar

💗 you are so right about needing to get out of our heads, and I need to send you a picture of your kitty’s English double! so sorry she’s still not there yet but really hope with all the TLC she improves day on day this week. 🙏🫶xxx

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Skylar Liberty Rose's avatar

Just catching up with reading here and your first paragraph tugged at my heartstrings, especially after seeing your Instagram post with an update. I keep thinking of you. I've had the same experience, multiple times, and each loss has broken me. So I type this with tears in my eyes, imagining some of what you're probably going through right now, while not presuming to know your unique experience. The way these sweet souls weave their way into our lives. It's indescribable. As is the void they leave. Holding you close in my heart xo P.S. You are as real as writer as anyone I've ever read. I did one creative writing class which I dropped out of halfway through because everyone was up their own ass, and I have no f*cks to give about credentials or any of that jazz. The way we keep ourselves in cages.

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Marjorie Stern's avatar

Keep writing Dina❤️

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